Linda McFarlin
I’ve
been a traveler all my life, a Navy
brat whose family
moved every four years. By the age of 8 I had crossed the
Pacific twice---from Washington, the state of my birth, and California,
then to Hawaii and back to Washington. Traveling is in my blood, which
is a mix of Irish, Scottish, French and a dash of Cherokee, but I’d wager there is
some gypsy in my veins, too!
Early on I learned to use traveling as a tool for
self-revelation and personal
growth. On the road, I am able to live more in the moment
and
to trust that the right direction for me will reveal itself if I just
pay attention. Adventures
show up and Mother Earth shows me
her secret places.
Life
is Full of Surprises
Having practiced this tool for most of my 60+ years, sharing my
knowledge and discoveries with others brings me lots of
satisfaction. The world contains the most astonishing
surprises at every turn if we know where to look and slow down enough
to notice the wonders that life is constantly offering.
My
life has been full of extremes, sudden turns and
transformations. So shy as a child that I had to whisper
answers to questions in the teacher’s ear, I later became a
public speaker and trained as a facilitator for Insight
Seminars. Growing up a middle-class American with
Depression-era parents, by the age of 35 my life had been transformed
into one of wealth and success.
I’ve climbed
15,000-foot peaks in Nepal and dived deep into my inner world through
meditation. Owned a Mercedes and a Harley. Lived in
tents at the beach and manor houses in England. Even though
I’m a typical Taurus homebody with a
love of luxury, I sold or gave away nearly
everything I owned to become
a wandering monk.
This last phase was
precipitated by a family crisis while still in Texas raising my
children. Life appeared successful on the surface, but it
started to unravel. As a result, I took a closer look at what
was driving me—my motivations, unconscious
programming and negative beliefs.
Small
Town / Big City
Trading small town life in Texas for the big city, the next 7 years
were spent in the thrill-seeking environment of Los Angeles, continuing
my inner journey. With training as a master practitioner of
NLP, transformational hypnotherapist and two masters’ degrees
in psychology, there were lots of letters after my name.

After completion of a
self-esteem course with Jack Canfield and three
and a half years studying
“A Course in Miracles,” I
enrolled in a ministerial program with the Reverend Michael Beckwith at
Agape Church of Religious Science in Los Angeles, doing everything
possible to find peace and happiness and to assist others to discover
it as well.
During an
internship working with schizophrenics
as part of the
requirements for
licensing as an MFCC, it
dawned on me that all this learning was still not enough to bring
lasting well-being. Once again I questioned my life and its
purpose, became very depressed and spent two months in my bedroom,
unable to rouse myself from my lethargy.
This period of depression was one of the most enlightening and
important stages in my life! As a result of just sitting in
bed, deepening my spiritual practice and surrendering, I realized that
the depression was trying to tell me that my life was out of
balance. I needed to play more!
What followed was salsa and stand-up comedy in L.A. Then once
again, I took to the road, spending 6 months in India and Asia with my
two children. Upon returning to the states, Ascension
fortuitously appeared, the meditative practice that has been the focus
of my life for more than a decade.
Teaching
in 17 Countries
My present husband,
Gary, and I have spent the last ten years
living and
teaching Ascension. At last count we’ve taught in
17 countries and the U.S., often staying in the
homes
of students for
extended periods of time. We’ve experienced other
countries and people in a way few are privileged to—joining
in daily family life and being privy to not only the joys and
celebrations, but to their unique challenges
and different worldviews.
Teaching and practicing Ascension brought me the balance I’d
been seeking for so long. When the teaching
phase ended in
2003, 4 years passed before a new direction appeared. I was
as surprised as anyone to find that it entailed a whole new career, a
business and living in Ecuador! All
this at retirement age!
New
Business and a New Life in Ecuador
As this new business venture unfolds for me, I know that it means
embracing the business world again and engaging fully in a new life in
Ecuador, meeting the challenges that will bring while retaining my
balance.
A source of joy for me is helping others realize that what
they think are flaws or problems are really their greatest gifts and
opportunities and inspiring them to use these gifts creatively.
I find life most rewarding when involved in creating transformations of all kinds, whether it's giving derelict buildings or businesses a new "lease" on life, making barren land blossom again or helping people turn their blocks and issues into stepping stones to success. I look forward to using this gift here in Ecuador.


